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1.Have a strong handshake. Do not attempt to break the other person's hand, but do have a firm, solid grip. Three handshakes should be enough. If you shake more than that, the other person may see you as wanting something more or as being too clingy.


2.Do not let anyone take advantage of you. This does not only apply to men, believe it or not. Anyone and everyone is capable of being manipulative and/or a user. Your boss, co-workers, peers, and the regular people you deal with everyday may try to take advantage of you at some point. Do not become completely untrusting, though -- be smart about who you trust and who you do things for, and don't be afraid to say no, but don't suspect everyone of being out to get you!

3.Realize that women have come a long way. Many people try to claim that a woman's job is in the home, taking care of the house, children, and their husband's needs far beyond their own. And while it is true that they should have a part in all of this (as should a husband), a lot of women must work outside of the home to help provide for their families. Less than a hundred years ago women had barely any rights, and now we are almost on the same level as men, if not equal. This is a huge advancement that you should be proud of. Women also have needs, too. When they have had a hard day at work or are feeling down, they should be able to guiltlessly enjoy themselves and have "me" time every once in a while.

4.Don't worry about men too much. Yes, you may want a man in your life. But, do you need one? You've survived this long without one, so obviously it won't kill you to be single. However, if you do not choose to be single, don't take men and their antics too seriously. If he truly loves you and cares for you like he should, then you will never have to worry about every fight being the last one.

5.Raise your self esteem. The majority of people with low self esteems are women. You need to realize how smart, beautiful, and wonderfully made you are. Think of all of the things you are capable of: making and giving life, nourishing a child, being someone's rock and shelter. Someone in this world needs you and loves you just the way you are. Why not add another person to that list: you.

6.Do not let people threaten you. Learn self-defense, take a karate class, something to teach you how to keep yourself from harm. If someone is verbally threatening you, then go the correct authorities. At school, that could be your teacher, principal, guidance counselor, or School Resource Officer. At work, that would be your supervisor; if your supervisor is the one doing it, then go to Human Resources or go to your supervisor's superior. In extreme cases, the appropriate authority figure may be the police. Do not be afraid to ask for help -- just because you're independent does not mean that you are stupid, and not asking for help is just that.
7Be your own self! Do not constantly try to look, act, or dress like someone you know or a celebrity. You are unique for a reason/reasons. If you were supposed to do everything that they do, then you would either be stuck to their hip or would be them. Find your very own style, hobbies, and life in general. You only get to be one person in the end, and that person is you.



7.Be your own self! Do not constantly try to look, act, or dress like someone you know or a celebrity. You are unique for a reason/reasons. If you were supposed to do everything that they do, then you would either be stuck to their hip or would be them. Find your very own style, hobbies, and life in general. You only get to be one person in the end, and that person is you.

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i can be soft like cotton but sometime i can be hard like a stone , i can be silly angry mad silence laugh of loud and giggle all the time i just me !

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comel gilaa sweet doo korang ingat akuu
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16th August 2010

heheeee my birthdayy yayyy me


nabilah : 9th august present!happy advanced birtday

16th August 2010

on 8.20 pm
nick : call.. tuuut tuut hello farah kan?hari tuu lupa i laa tuu.kenal tak ni sapa?dah laa tak save num i
me : ni nick eh?yaa i kenal sgt suara you why? i ingat you guna num baru so i dlete num lama
nick : mana adaa i still guna num lamaa , you you you happy birtday !
me : esok laa you lambat lagi.haha but thanks
nick : alaa i nak jadi org first wish , i first kan?
me : yaa you first
nick : awww so sweet , HAHHAHAHAHHAHAHA i hope you happy farah


on 10.45 pm
bali : text... farah syafiqah ;)
me : 20 minute later . yaa muhd fazli :)
bali : kejap lagi birthday awak! ;)
me : haha yaa i tau :D
bali : sukala tuu.happy bufday awak!haha
me : blm lg laa.lg 1 jam laa awk but thanks awak :D
about present , tennnnnnn heheee
11.43
bali :awak buat apa?mst ta sbar kn nak tunggu pkul 12.haha happy bufday lg!haha
me : i can stop smiling laa awak, hehee i baru nak 17.thank you awak :)
12.00am
bali : happy birthday farah syafiqah!dah besarla awak skrng .cepat buat wish awak!wish you happy happy selalu yea jgn mara mara. haha. happy birtday lagi!
me : haha awak dah 3 kali wish dah , thanks lg tau awk :)
bali : awk dah boleh kawin dah, haha awk jgn mara i lagi tau , sabar yaa
me : haha taknak kawin lgi! err taktahu laa awk. you better behave ;)
bali : i mmg behave laa awk , haha

me : hey you thanks yaa for wishes :) i ingt you lupaa mle mle so i mcm terasa jgk laa but You tak lupaa!thank you awak tau.appreciate <3 :) thanks
bali : i tunggu kowt.You taw i siap tgk tvastro lg.tepat pukul 12 i terus wish, haha shh diam taw.jgnbgtaw org laen, haha

1.49 am
bali : happy birtday awak!

hahahaa thanks awk.awak awak paling bnyk wish awk tau , hahaha thanks kte appreciate sgt awk . eyhh ingat lolipop kte :D

on 15th august 2010 11.47 pm
ety : happy birtday senah.hope more wishes to come.iloveyou.muah ! :)
me : awww iloveyou moree thanks ety :)
ety : welsome.belum genap 12 agy.tpi da ngntk,tkot tetdo.haha so wish before tetdo la.hee

nasihah : happy birthday gorgeous!i hope ur life turns out to be great and more sweet memories are made . I hope u'll always happy with ur life and i'll be right there next to you when you need me and give you support.I love you so much . kte syg awk since standard 5 lgi until now eventhough awk always taknak kawan kte dlu tapi takpe kte still syg awk. ALWAYS! hugs and kisskisskiss for you
me : awww comel gilaa awak , kte pon syg awk :D


on 15 th august 2010
sarah : HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU.HAPPY BIRTHDAY HAPPY BITHDAY HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO FARAH ! I LOVE YOU BESTIE! muahhh :D
me : haha thanks but lagi 3 mnt laa haha
sarah : jarum rumah aku dah pukul 12.haha

nabilah : happy 17th birthday
me : thanks syg ! kau dah awk dlu dahh bg hadiah :)

shaikh : you you happy birtday i hope you happy :) you dah besar dah sekarang :D

siddiq : happy birthday !

yusof and intan : happy birtday farah

ili audi : hey fara fiqa.hapy bufday to you.semoga dirimu dilindungi allah.Jgn noty noty. Awak dah bosa k . haha .Do your best on trial and spm k .tc yaa Ly
me : thanks ili take care too
ili audi : yaa i will :)

natasha : happy birthday to you , happy birthday to you happy birthday to my dear farah.happy birtday to YOU! may ur bufday this year fill with happiness n mndpt kbktan allah smpena bln ramadhan ni . amin , i love you senah !
ME : THNKS i love you too

hafeez : call... happy birthday farah

aidil : text.. happy birthday farah i hope you happy and i wish you the best
me : thanks
aidil : call... hey happy birthay farah !
me : thanks aidil i ingat you lupa wish
aidil : mana boleh lupa i dah smpn dalam diari i dah i nak jadi org last wish
me : eh?why
aidil : i bce buku org tu ckp sapa org last ni kesan dia mendalam.
me : hahaha oh yaa?i tak rasa apa apa pon
aidil : nanti nanti haha

Liana : happy birthday farah , dah ada pon group yg cukup 17!
me : yeap yeap

adrian : happy birthday farah !
me : haha thanks

ezawana : happy birtday awak . kte sayang awk


thanks to all who wish me happy birthday , thanks i really appreciate . People that i didnt put you name on dont worry you still be my number one . HAHA thanks love you all muah !

A A B I L

heyy awak yang pretty !
saya suka suara awak begini
cantik awak tauu
haha

they caught me smile

Liana gave me chocolate sarah gave me cakes she made it and my dearest nabilah gave me a teddy bear and a chocolate.cikgu Zulhairi makes us laugh by asking how going to Malam Bintang then he said there will be artist arriving then sarah said who? then he said khai,who khai?then everybody start to guess then he said Khai is ZUL-KHAI-RI.Oh HAA HAA cikgu.cikgu khairul azizi like a father to us hmmm i said i dont want friend with you then he said taknak kawan sudah , hahaha gedik betul geli geli, HAHA.Siddiq quite kotor today he put his hand on his arm pit then pass to people,ewww yusuf mcm biasa diaa. We all pretty worried about nabilah health she pretty bad yesterday get well soon yaa peng ! we love you muah muah. Today sarah liana siddiq fazilah hanim dayah and me gossiping about wardah i never though about half of girl in calss dont like her she rude she unrespect people she anything but annoy us ergggh go away laa and guess what ckg Nan Aini admired her wahh bakal menantu eh?HAHA but all in end it up by good timee.

Hi

hmmm how do i start?Lets start by go past and remember what kind things that we use to do that i use to like you so much.I use to put a big smile on my face and i used to feel million crash that maked me feel spinning.lets start by your smile your laugher your nice sweet kind of boy.I admired you by shyness that i almost cant stand enough of it.Then when we walk for first time i still remember we both pretend to be cool to be alaa piece of cake but actually terkaku!haha then you gave me lolipop haha im so excited that timee i cant blush moree!That you used to called me sweets hmmm i cant stand of it.For you everything that i have , i hold it on first i dont know maybe im in love or im just like you too much?then boom somenthing happen you not the same person that i use to know you,your shyness shocked me you sweetness puts tears in my eyes your smile you scent makes me go away i hate you!YOU ARE PERSON THAT STAY BEHIND A SHADOW.You are a person that at first i want to leave first.I just feel like you want to be somebody and you want be somebody so that everyone knows you.If you are a friend of mine you should think before you act you should care how i feel.what did you do?you just go nothing yet you apology but i dont looking for your apology i want the truth.Yet you still want to hurt eventhough you said i try so hard not to hurt you but yet you did.Your type happen then asking for apology, hmmmm take a bow what have you done best award goes to you.I just so extremely not to think to much of it and it taken my emotionaly cover it so it's cant fade away.Sometime i feel like you want to be far from me?why?im ugly?hurmmm i dont know but now im the one who feel i want to away from you i just dont want deal with anything right now and you ALWAYS BRINGS EXCELLENT EXCUSES when it's come things that i pissed off.I want you to know THANKS FOR GIVING ME TASTE OF LOVE MAKING ME LOVED NO DID SPECIAL LIKE YOU DID.Right now you just a friend that living behind a shadow.You not show to me what kind a friend,you not show you care about it,you said not to hurt but yet you did and you became did we know each other?.Im not saying because im be prefect no, i just saying because for about 3 years of frinedship i been hurt i try just be okeyy but clearly hard for it.We just a close friend from phone to a phone not a person to a person.After we had a huge fight you said you dont know why you feel happy hmm i tell you why it's because you learn to be nice and waited its happen but yaa i did happy to be nice with you again but i cant.Like i told you before we become bestfriend from a phone to a phone not a person to a person.Im hurt when you didnt remember things but thanks now i learn what kind a boy you are.Now i just not to happy not to sad mcm biasa je bila dengan you.I dont cry now I dont hurt now i think im okey without you.

i love thee too

awww thank you dear bestfriend i love you do.terkejut doo time kau bagi heeee thank you sayang jugak kau kat akuu.happy doo ! thank youu!loveyou bite muah ! eee gayy ! But i know one things that i love you :)

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happy engangement kak farah.finally after 9 year been together.People do said kalau ada jodoh lari lari mana pon jumpaa jugak,banyak cabran mcm mana pon still jumpaa jugaa see youguys made it happen. congrat!

hey boy you maked me laugh

hmm let me said here you jerk doo!kau dah text org lain bg goodnight text yang berbunga bungaa tuu then kau sent kat kawan aku,wahhh!fabio habis laa kau!goodjob ! extremly well dude i almost admire you chicken little you almost maked me laugh all night long well boy next time you have to try so hard.A very nice of you give a very sweet goodnight text but HAHAHAHA i was laughing when i got your text, HAHAHAHAA i forward to my friend then booom she got it too.Yoww dude well play haa, nice onee i bet you really want be somebody right?oh i forgot your heart is breaking kan so if you do these so maybe ladies will be fool with you, oppsss sorry chicken little.dude if you want tackle buat care betul betul laa do.lawak laa awk ni saya suka awk begini, hahaa

put a big smile

how i express my feeling toward you?weeeeee im so excited !

babi

eee aku benci kau laa sial!babi kau asl kau wujud?sakit bodo hati aku,eeee kau bodoh kau babi kau tak reti nak hargai org kau tak reti nak pujuk org , kau babi eee sakit bodo.aku dah try so hard nak jugak baik dgn kau try lupaaa benda lepas tak boleh kau still buat jugak tapi takpa aku tak buat balik kat kau nanti kau kena sendiri, karmaa yea bang!just wait and see